for helis size 350 and bigger, airplanes: jeti ds16
for smaller helis (omp m1/m2) and quads: frsky x-lite pro with an elrs modul for quads and an multi modul for various "toy" protocolls
the x-lite will probably be retired in favor of an radiomaster zorro.
(i ditched all the fr-sky receivers...)
and i am torn:
if jeti had small receiver like elrs and woopboards with integrated rx, greater acceptance with the quad community, i would switch completely to jeti
if elrs had more normal rx (for airplains) and flight controllers would support it, i would switch completely to elrs
also i am a pc guy i never liked game controllers...
but i must say as a radio i like the game controller style, feels a lot more natural for flying to me then the classic brick style